Well after our house was under contract for almost two months the pieces of shit backed out.

It goes back on the market tomorrow and I am really really frustrated.


For most its just business and thats how it goes, but for me its a lot more.
For me it was the end of my wifes and I pass, and a start of a new future.
For me it was the end of sleepless nights when I took care of her dying grandfather.
For me its the end of everything I hated, and the beginning of everything new.

We spent a lot of money getting into our new place, moving, etc.
I guess its bad to assume that people sign a contract telling you the house is sold, and using the money in your savings to start your life is a bad thing.
Well we learned our f*cking lesson hard.
I hope these f*cking people rot in hell. I am f*cking freaking out now, and I am f*cking scared that it wont sell and we will be broke as f*ck soon.

My biggest fear is having to quit school to work two full time jobs to makes ends meat, and/or having to file bankruptcy.
To me filing bankruptcy is the lowest of the low. It really means telling the world your a pathetic loser who takes, but does not pay for what you take. Its really the bottom of the barrel. I dont want to be there.

Sorry I am venting, I am in a stage of anxiety and panic.

this happened because you don't believe in god. haha

seriously though, that is a big problem you have.
buyers back out of deals all the time, sucks, but they have to do what is right for them also.
so, what are your alternatives?
reduce price and sell?
turn it into an income property?

Sorry to hear about your house not going through..

I will think about it more while I sit in my 2 bedroom craphole of an apartment, with my 3 other family members on ghetto and gang street.

Good luck in selling it..

I hope these f*cking people rot in hell.

I wouldn't buy anything from you if you paid me. The last like 3 threads I've seen from you, you hate someone for some reason(even called one group a bunch of n*ggers), and of course it is always someone else's fault. Sorry about your loss, I just won't read any of your threads anymore so that I don't litter them with my bs.

Do you know their reason for backing out? Maybe they had a child come down with an illness and now they are forced to move into a small apartment and pay for their kids medical visits. The point is, they wouldn't have sat through 2 months of contracts either if they weren't interested. And if it wasn't against the law for them to pull out when they did, then you gotta just take it as a loss. No reason to comdemn people like you always do. It's also funny how you say "rot in hell", isn't that a bit hippocritical coming from you? I've never met an Atheist who believed in Hell....

I wouldn't buy anything from you if you paid me. The last like 3 threads I've seen from you, you hate someone for some reason(even called one group a bunch of n*ggers), and of course it is always someone else's fault. Sorry about your loss, I just won't read any of your threads anymore so that I don't litter them with my bs.

He's gotta get his e-dick up to size, duhh.

You can sue them for reasonable exspenses due to their breach of contract... Assuming they did not back acording to the contract... What was thier reason for backing out... Did you require earnest money from the buyers??? Did you keep it?? (you can usually)...

It will all work out in the long run... Someone else will want the house soon enough... Good luck----Fog

Dude, I could say "Don't sweat it," but it wouldn't do much good. Shit happens. I know it sucks, I was already to buy a house a few months ago, but the Army had something else in mind and now wants to change course. It just means more money in the bank. I always thought that if I were in a situation with a house that wouldn't sell, I wouldn't have it on the market for more than 6 months and then it would become rental property. I know nothing about being a landlord, or even repairing shit around the house (FOGHORN...I'm Waiting to hear from you!), but hey, I'll learn.

Don't think about bankruptcy...you're nowhere near that point (I have been there already), and don't be negative about it. I ain't saying be all peaches and cream about it, but don't go sacrificing cats over it. (If you are, lemme know...I'll bring the barbecue sauce) YOU WILL RECOVER.

Sorry to be so negative the last few days guys, its just that life was going so well and then it hit the slammer. So sorry for venting.
There is a lot to this picture, just too much to share, most of you would never understand or just have something f*cked up to say anyway.

The reason I called them pieces of shit is because a week after the potential buyer put a bid on it she lost her job, and instead of doing the right thing and pulling out, she lead everyone on thinking she could just land another job that pays enough to make a mortgage, the bank found out, and pulled her approval for the loan.


EDIT: So in a nutshell she had 7 weeks or so to tell someone, but she didnt. That my friend is f*cking BS, and it is costing me a lot of time and money. It isnt some sick kid, or whatever bleeding heart dream you made up, people are mostly bullshit and I know it, I just call it as I see it.


If you dont like what I post dont f*cking bother reading it, or replying then, thats what I do to a lot of the people here I dont like. I'm not losing any sleep because you dont like me.

Sorry to be so negative the last few days guys, its just that life was going so well and then it hit the slammer. So sorry for venting.
There is a lot to this picture, just too much to share, most of you would never understand or just have something f*cked up to say anyway.

The reason I called them pieces of shit is because a week after the potential buyer put a bid on it she lost her job, and instead of doing the right thing and pulling out, she lead everyone on thinking she could just land another job that pays enough to make a mortgage, the bank found out, and pulled her approval for the loan.


EDIT: So in a nutshell she had 7 weeks or so to tell someone, but she didnt. That my friend is f*cking BS, and it is costing me a lot of time and money. It isnt some sick kid, or whatever bleeding heart dream you made up, people are mostly bullshit and I know it, I just call it as I see it.


If you dont like what I post dont f*cking bother reading it, or replying then, thats what I do to a lot of the people here I dont like. I'm not losing any sleep because you dont like me.

I still like you :kiss

Sorry to hear about your house not going through..

I will think about it more while I sit in my 2 bedroom craphole of an apartment, with my 3 other family members on ghetto and gang street.

Good luck in selling it..

If you dont like your situation, then improve it or change it.
That is what I am doing. Simple as that.
I never said my situation is better or worse than anyone else, however I am actually doing something with my life and there are stupid assed walls along the way that dont need to be there, such as this. So in human nature I vent about it to friends, or the Bronco board.

Get over yourself for even saying that your situation is so bad, f*cking wah, do something.

I wouldn't buy anything from you if you paid me. The last like 3 threads I've seen from you, you hate someone for some reason(even called one group a bunch of n*ggers), and of course it is always someone else's fault. Sorry about your loss, I just won't read any of your threads anymore so that I don't litter them with my bs.

Do you know their reason for backing out? Maybe they had a child come down with an illness and now they are forced to move into a small apartment and pay for their kids medical visits. The point is, they wouldn't have sat through 2 months of contracts either if they weren't interested. And if it wasn't against the law for them to pull out when they did, then you gotta just take it as a loss. No reason to comdemn people like you always do. It's also funny how you say "rot in hell", isn't that a bit hippocritical coming from you? I've never met an Atheist who believed in Hell....

No shit, quit your ****ing bitching. Bitch about this, bitch about that. You jumped, without making sure the things behind you were taken care of. Your fault. Maybe if you had a better attitude I could feel sorry. Hell, I've felt sorry and hoped for you to find the good for a while, with your struggles with family, the grandfather, and the divide that caused between you and your wife.

You're overextended. Ok, that's cool. What the fawk does getting stressed and bitching and moaning do? Just puts a drain on you. Suck it up, and start talking. Talk to your landlord about maybe shifting some rent cost back, explain teh situation. Talk to the bank about the possibility of needing a short term loan to cover expenses while you get the house sold for a second time. Talk to whoever or whatever. You have 4wheelers, use those titles to lean on. Heaven forbid you should get rid of your nice big truck to offload that payment.

If you're in a place where it takes 2 full time jobs plus your wife working like she does (used to?), to survive you've obviously backed yourself into your own corner.

As Keith said, maybe those people had something come up. Shit happens - look at your own damn life. There's a reason its on a bumper sticker, ya know. The mormons are NOT out to get you. The "******s" that you hate so dearly are NOT out to get you. The people who backed out on your purchase are NOT out to get you, though I would be curious to know if they were being ****bags or had had something big happen to shake up their own lives. I think more then a nice place to live, 4 wheelers, a big truck, and this "comfortable life you and your wife can finally live", you need to find a better attitude. Somewhere. Somehow. You weren't meant to live like this. Then again, you're the one with the name godless.

Edit: Oh yeah, bankruptcy is not a bad thing. It's bad when people abuse it. If you go through a divorce, chances are you are NOT going to be able to dig out from that. Some people can, but alot of people have too much together to survive seperate. Pepe has gone through one, right? I think? My uncle has as well. It's not fun, and it sure as hell isn't intentional - but its pivotal when you need a way out of a situation you back into. You are not to that point yet, obviously, and I doubt you really need to even look at it that way. But honestly, judging anybody immediately on a bankruptcy label is a little bit of a bitch move.

Honestly, find something to improve your attitude. I know before you changed to godless you were fun. Outspoken as you still are, but not a dramatic naysayer and slanderer. Maybe you need a Bronco back in your life :toothless

Oh and fog we got $500.00 for the loss.

BFD IMHO, but at least it will pay for the fuel I will be using to go back and show the house, mow the lawn, etc. in the mean time.

just too much to share, most of you would never understand or just have something f*cked up to say anyway.

What you don't seem to get is that WE ALL HAVE GONE THROUGH SIMILAR OR WORSE STUFF!. The world (or the ******s or the camel jockeys, or your boss or the hyundai dealership, or your wife sleeping to much, or Fox news interupting your precious tv show to tell people that several people have been shot at the local mall, or the residents of New Orleans) are not out to get you. We all deal with this stuff everyday, get annoyed, frustrated, or pissed, and move on. Also, if you don't think the energy you give off impacts the energy you get back, just try it the other way for a while and see what happens.
:thumbup

GUYS











Have you ever seen moths fly into a light repeatedly until they knock themselves out or die? I think they're getting farther in life than you all are..............

I ran into a stopsign once on a bike. Is that close enough? :toothless

Drama queen again....he gets the crown for fullsize...:goodfinge

Jake, good words. However you should know that no matter how bad things get with me I will never be weak enough to turn into a faith driven human.
I dont need a false sense of hope to get up in the morning.

Its been a tough week and I post it here. My bad, but still I didnt think I forced you or anyone to read it or post in it.

The reason I want the life I have is because I worked for it, and it wasnt given to me by a rich mommy and daddy. The government doesnt pay ANY of my bills, and I dont look for hand outs. I never want to be that low, can you blame me?

I work hard for everything, and in turn expect the benefits I am working so hard for, I just wish everyone else in this world would play their part.
I dont go into peoples houses telling them I am going to buy it and dont, and I sure as hell dont go screwing anyone else in this world out of anything.

My crime in life is posting my frustrtions on the www, so sue me. I guess I am a bad person.

I think it's just that time of year. Everyone is either getting tax money back, or paying tax money. Everyone gets on edge this time of year. Hell, I just survived an entire month of not getting paid.

Now I'm going to sacrifice a couple cats...I'm hungry.

I think it's just that time of year. Everyone is either getting tax money back, or paying tax money. Everyone gets on edge this time of year. Hell, I just survived an entire month of not getting paid.

Now I'm going to sacrifice a couple cats...I'm hungry.

It probably is. Everyone at work and school is bitching about this or that too.

Hope things look up for you job wise.

Oh and lots and lots of BBQ sauce will cover up the cat smell. :toothless

It probably is. Everyone at work and school is bitching about this or that too.

Hope things look up for you job wise.

Oh and lots and lots of BBQ sauce will cover up the cat smell. :toothless

Job? It was the Army that wasn't paying me! It's over now, but it'll be good ammo for my book! :muscle071

I didnt know, I just assumed it was something with work. My bad.

It probably is. Everyone at work and school is bitching about this or that too.


Everyone at my work and most of my friends have been in a good mood.

Back in the days when the settlers were moving to the West, a wise man stood on a hill outside a new Western town. As the settlers came from the East, the wise man was the first person they met before coming to the settlement. One young man approached and asked eagerly what the people of the town were like.

He answered him with a question: “What were the people like in the town you just left?”

The young man responded “The town I came from was wicked. The people were rude gossips who took advantage of innocent people. It was filled with thieves and liars.”

The wise man answered, “This town is the same as the one you left.”

The man thanked the man for saving them from the trouble they had just come out of. They then moved on further west.

Then another young man arrived and asked the same question: “What is this town like?”
The wise man asked again, “What was the town like where you came from?”

The man responded, “It was wonderful! We had dear friends. Everyone looked out for the others’ interest. There was never any lack because all cared for one another. If someone had a big project, the entire community gathered to help. It was a hard decision to leave, but we felt compelled to make a way for future generations by going west as pioneers.”

The wise old man said “This town is the same as the one you left.”

I didnt know, I just assumed it was something with work. My bad.

No prob...I didn't air it out here because I didn't want people to know until it was all blown over. Now I can laugh about it in a sad, sadistic, vengeful sort of way. I have names, and they will pay. Maybe not now, but definitely later.


Good luck with the house dude. Don't let it eat at you. One thing that I always keep in my head whenever I go through a shit storm is that I will always get through it.

i'm about to swing two house payments, too, jer. it's very stressful but i'm hoping to hell that i can either sell one right away or rent it out to cover costs. just not knowing the future is uneasy, i'm trying to work it out in my mind that everything will be ok. usually when you look back in life, the bad things were not as bad as you thought they were, and the good things, well, they don't last forever either.

good luck getting that house sold.

Yeah, I will say to everyone though that I have been going through a lot lately, and I have aired my laundry out here a lot.

I apologize that I have been negative, and its bringing negative shit to this board.

I wont post any negative stuff for a while just because it is making me look like a drama queen and tht isnt me.

p54519 that is a good story, and it makes sense.

Take care guys, I just need to keep my chin up, and realize everything I still have, loving wife, brother, friends, and coworkers. Good schooling, job, and things I have made in my life. This isnt the first obstacle and it certainly wont be the last. I can honestly say I am 29 and still have some growing up to do when it comes to dealing with stress. I am at least man enough to admit it.

Thank you again.

Its been a tough week and I post it here. My bad, but still I didnt think I forced you or anyone to read it or post in it.



No, but with a title like you put on it, of course we're going to be reading it. My first thought was "Oh no, Jer's got a ferret going down." Or "Oh no, his wife got hurt." Or something like that, you know? With the rash of Dogs taking a downturn lately (Ceasar, Friday, another on another forum), or a few people getting into wrecks - that's what I expected. You'll sell the house, you've said yourself that people are buying up houses like crazy out there.

I can feel where you're coming from with how others have gotten things easy, etc etc. I get some government help - I get like 4 grand for my FAFSA, 4 grand for an Iowa Tuition Grant, and 8k for federal stafford loans that the government help sout with. After that, I'm left to deal with the remainder 10k of tuition, books, and room/board. Then there's my truck, insurance, etc. We all work, I'm used to and mostly comfortable with 30 hours of work a week to go with my 16 cred hours. There's others like me on here. There's others on here like you, schoolin it and workin it trying to get by.

I'm sorry if I hurt your feelings, but I do mean what I said. I hope that you will focus on the message as much as the context. Hell, there's a UFC fight coming up and Diego Sanchez is going to cry like a bitch - lets look forward to that man. :drinkbud

I just need to keep my chin up, and realize everything I still have, loving wife, brother, friends, and coworkers. Good schooling, job, and things I have made in my life. This isnt the first obstacle and it certainly wont be the last. I can honestly say I am 29 and still have some growing up to do when it comes to dealing with stress. I am at least man enough to admit it.

Thank you again.

Now you are on the right path. :thumbup :thumbup The hard part is maintaining that attitude when things don't go well. Negativity is a very addictive drug. It allows you to shirk responsibilities when you feel like "there's no use anyway". Just remember all the good things and be thankful for them. If you don't want to thank God, then thank your lucky stars, or evolution or whatever. Just make sure that each night you think about what you are thankful for before you go to sleep, I promise it will help.

I sent a few of you a PM just for good measure.

Saurian, I here you and no I didnt take anything personally. I try not to ever.

None of you know the real Jer, its just the good things and hard things that get aired. You dont know the everyday happy go lucky guy that I am. For the most part I am a really nice guy thats fun to be hanging around. I am also the first to take my shirt off to give to someone that is cold.


Now, yes there is a UFC, and yes I hope its good. I do however thing that Sanchez will win. I dont like him, but in my opinion he is a better fighter.
For me I am not routing for either fighter, just a good clean brawl.

I do however for some messed up reason want Serra to beat GSP. I dont know if I am just going for the underdog or if its because he beat my boy Matt Hughes. He is a great fighter, and a great human being, so I have nothing ill to say about him, I just dont want him to win this fight.

The rest of the card is give or take.

Oh and one other thing you forgot to mention, there are TWO ufc's this week. There is a free one on SPIKE, this thursday.

If you don't want to thank God, then thank your lucky stars, or evolution or whatever.

Lately I have been thanking these Raisin Bran muffins I bought from the grocery. Man they are f*ckign amazing. Its like someone waited until their Raisin Bran cereal got soggy, then made it into a muffin. Now that sounds gross if you think about the soggy cereal, but if you picture it as a warm delicious moist muffin with cream cheese, its heaven.
To me thats a little heaven, and if heaven is delicious foods with no calories then sign me up. :toothless


All jokes aside, thank you. I know what you mean.:beer

GSP will beat Serra like a Rott with a min-pin. But, I'm with you - I'd love to see that cocky shithead get caught with some punchers chance on Serra's part and bite it hard. I HATE GSP. I hope Hughes can muster some hellacious training and put him back in his place. It'll be tough as hell, but he has it in him.

you got to keep the earnest money or did they find a way to back out of the contract? it really sounds like the earnest money should be yours. Hopefully you got it and it is a decent sum. Good lesson for sellers, set your earnest figure high enough to keep buyers on the right path.

have you thought about turning it into an income property? is that feasible?

You all need to read the Secret.

I guess I am a bad person.


We finally agree on something, :beer


J/k Jer, I promise :goodfinge

Honestly, I generally enjoy reading the majority of what you post. All of us, myself included, use FSB as a place to vent our personal frustrations (an example from me: Life Sucks (http://www.fullsizebronco.com/forum/showthread.php?t=85488&highlight=Life+Sucks)) It's just that lately when reading your posts you always seem to be personally attacking people for the way things are happening. If it's just that it's a terrible week then I apologize and I hope that you can realize my point. If it's a matter of me not reading/replying to your threads anymore I can live with that as well. Regardless, I hope everything looks up for you and yours in the future.

~Keith

Lately I have been thanking these Raisin Bran muffins I bought from the grocery. Man they are f*ckign amazing. Its like someone waited until their Raisin Bran cereal got soggy, then made it into a muffin. Now that sounds gross if you think about the soggy cereal, but if you picture it as a warm delicious moist muffin with cream cheese, its heaven.
To me thats a little heaven, and if heaven is delicious foods with no calories then sign me up. :toothless


All jokes aside, thank you. I know what you mean.:beer

You provide much tasty information, all of it useless without a BRAND NAME! Throw us a bone over here!

P wants to make his avatar fatter. :toothless

Bought this album and just loved the dudes attitude. Kind of reminds me of a grown-up Cartman:

http://www.community-media.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2006/05/fatboyslim.jpg

:lolup

I've always wondered WTF that was.

Jer, it's a rough patch, there will be a smooth one later to make up for it. Just imagine when you get outta school...damn that'll be nice. :toothless

You provide much tasty information, all of it useless without a BRAND NAME! Throw us a bone over here!

Its from the grocer's fresh bakery, but it is an Albertsons so if you have them near your area then beat your baker until they make em, there that good.

In fact, if a judge told me that I had to take life in prison, but at least I got to eat three of these muffins a day, I would be getting off lucky. :toothless

I dont know how you deal with school, I HATE it. Pain in the ass.

Didn't your house go under contract really quickly after you put it up for sale? That alone would give me lots of confidence that it won't sit around too long before you get another offer.

That sucks hard. And unfortunatley it happens often. Take it as a lesson learned and don't ever count on anything untill its in your hand

Lesson learned for sure. My brother came over tonight (He is my realtor).

He told me that he got calls everyday while it was under contract, and that he has a list of people to call to let them know the sale went through so they can put an offer in.

It sounds promising, just hope it goes quick and for what we are asking.

I just had a rogh time hearing the news, and I went berzerk today. I really lost it. We went from having our money in 3 days, to not knowing when. In the mean time my debtors still want their money naturally. So it did hit hard, and it hit home.