Yeah, watched a couple vids then, i was close but not quite right on my technique.
I was heating the area that pulled in, not my patch, but i didnt pop it out first which i think was my whole problem. I could see it move, but of course it moved the wrong way
Worst case, i have another pair of OEM doors i can use (i was saving them for half doors, but i could always make these half doors instead) so its not the end of the world if i dont get em right. I will go back and try it again when im done with the rear bumper, i just need a break from sheetmetal!