Could be your low pressure pump in the tank. This was my problem. I had to replace the whole thing in the tank (not a fun or easy task). As far as your other questions regarding the relays, I'm not sure. My problem was a bad pump that did not run (corroded), however there was still pressure in the system. We tested our fuel/ignition problem by squirting some gas down the throttle body to see if it would start/run (shortly). NOTE: I am not a mechanic, nor am I claiming to be one. If you try this, please do so with caution and with someone knowledgeable. I am not responsible for any damage you may do to you, another person, or your vehicle. You can have a backfire very easily (flames and everything). If you're not very knowledgeable I would suggest finding a local shop you can trust to help you diagnose your problem(s) or maybe another member can provide some better insight.