well i just now got around to feelin like talkin about this. last wednesday night, i got a call from my dad around 10pm. i was asleep at the barracks. he informed me that my cousin had passed away. he was crying, which is unusual. i asked how it happened and i was informed that her husband had shot her with a shotgun. she was divorcing him and he was one of those guys who was like "well if i cant have you than nobody can". he shot and killed her, shot my ohter cousin in teh shoulder and face while she was taking their 8 yr old and 2 1/2 week old girls in the bathroom to hide them. then he took his own life. my cousin was only 28 or 29. anyone who lives around texarkana might have heard about it. her name was melissa grant. he husband was jeff cain. the guy is lucky he shot himself. i wish he wouldve, cuz i do. my SgtMaj almost didnt let me go on leave cuz he thought i was gonna find him and kill him but i told him that he did it for me. i feel so horrible for my other cousins, their children for having to watch the whole thing happen. so far its been real hard for amber the 8 yr old. the baby, gracie, only 2.5 weeks never got to know her parents. bad bad deal.