been with my g/f for 6 months. bout 5 weeks ago she said she needed a break, i called her that friday and told her i was going to plow the driveway and she got a little snotty, of course she was sick all week and the kids were home from school. i called her this past friday after 4 weeks of not calling her because i don't want to piss her off and been a little afraid to call her, but didn't get a call back. before we got together she was single for over 3 years. the friday before she said she needed a break, i called her house a few times and a friend of our's house a couple of times, didn't know if her or the kids were hurt or anything cause she wasn't home when she told me to call her. a few people are telling me to just give her some space and she'll come around. when she said she needed a break, she said that we were ok, she just felt a little smothered. she told me to get some stuff done around the house like replacing carpets, putting linoleum in the kitchen and bathroom. her daughter asked if i was gonna be there dad, and she told her that i can't be there dad, but there stepdad and asked if she'd like that, her daughter said yeah and so did she. she's the type of person that's up front and will tell you how it is and i don't think she'd tell her kids that i'm gonna be their stepdad and just end things hurting them in the process. sorry for the rant, just been going insane the last couple of weeks. i've never had feelings this strong for anyone i've been with. flame me if you must, but i figured i'd talk to ya'll and feel a little better not keeping everything bottled up.