I have a 96 e40d. Recently it has become hard to find the right gears on my shift column. It falls into drive around the neutral position, reverse around the park spot and so on. Also I have noticed while driving that the shifting is not quite as smooth as it was, it seems soft and slow. It used to be smooth, quick, crisp. Can anyone tell me what my problem might be?? I have done searches and found mlps stuff. Anyone??? Anything??? Please!