Pictures will help out a lot. I will try and look at mine tonight when I get home as well.
hm..i have noticed hesitation. ill check that out.I think the stalling is ignition-related. Usually, but not always, EGR troubles will cause surging, hesitation, rough running,etc. before stalling a vehicle. The EGR should be easier to troubleshoot, anyway. NM the neutral saftey switch code for now. You can also bump the timing.