When they balance it, they don't need to balance it to within a gram (or whatever ridiculous tolerance the racers have) They will weight balance your pistons, weigh the rods with a special machine, and remove material to make them the same weight at both ends.
Other tips/thoughts/suggestions
Have cylinder walls torque plate honed. The reason for this is because the process emulates cylinder wall distortion that the heads being bolted on causes. I've heard this can be good for up to 15 HP.
Wrap crank and rod journals with duct tape, Grind off any casting flash. The casting flash is a location that cracks tend to happen. Grind the area flat, it wont crack there (or so the theory goes) Don't hit your journals(hence the duct tape protecting everything.)
Chamfer the oil drain back holes in the intake valley, and head
Epoxy a thick wire mesh screen over any holes in the intake vally to catch anything that doesn't belong in the lower end. (this keeps crap out of the oil pan if something fails)
Specify ARP wavelock (or better) bolts when you have your rods reconditioned. Never re-use old/stock rod bolts.
Get your rods shot peened, and polished (grind off the casting flash on the sides)
having main studs will help your bottom end stay together better. You will have to get your mains line honed/bored. Supposedly it causes some sort of distortion???
Have your valve pockets blended to your seats
Use good quality stainless steel valves
Specify chromoly spring retainers, and 10* valve locks
An upgraded billet oil pump shaft is a definite bomus, a hardened shaft is a minimal, but important upgrade.
If your crank oiling holes are not already chamfered, have the shop do that as well.